We all have relationships in our lives.Either with friends,classmates, neighbors, parents and other people around us.Today am going to major my article on toxic relationships among campus students.
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Many a times we see campus students in groups doing different things.Students get into relationships for different reasons.Some of which are:
- · Peer pressure which comes from the urge to fit into a certain group of people
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Financial reasons.
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One may be lonely and desperate and therefore looking
for somewhere they can find happiness
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One can also get into a relationship for fame
and popularity.
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This and others are some of the reasons why one would get into a relationship.Once someone gets into a relationship for the wrong reasons,the outcome is normally not so good.
Most toxic relationships are as a
result of one getting into a relationship for the wrong reasons.We have examples
of outcomes of such relationships.
Last month (January 2020) a student from Technical University of Mombasa went missing for three days.He was later found dumped in
a River. Investigations say that this boy was killed by a group of students who
had discovered that he was having an affair with one of their friend’s
girlfriend.
A young life was lost for such a
minor issue.This is one of the outcomes of a toxic relationship among campus
students.
Last year at Moi University,a
medicine student the late Ivy Wangeci was brutally killed by her boyfriend.This shows
that they were in a relationship for the wrong reasons and it ended up in a lot
of sorrow.
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This and many other incidents that
have happened are a very good example of toxic relationships.Now,how can we
avoid such relationships from us as campus students?
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Let us be in relationships with positive
outcomes,if a relationship you are in does not benefit you in any way,leave it.
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Let us not use each other,don’t be close to
someone for some benefits either money,fame,revenge,among others.
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Let’s focus on building each other and being
open in every relationship.This will prevent any bitterness that can cause any
negative outcome in the future.
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In case you have any doubts about a relationship
you are having,seek advice from someone elderly.
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Let us not do things out of peer pressure,to
please our friends or to be seen as the best and become popular. Don’t take
anyone’s kindness for your advantage.
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If we do this we will maintain respect among each other and incidents like the ones happening will not be heard among us.Thank you.
Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooyes!! Someone must read this!
ReplyDeleteMmmh nice one
ReplyDeleteGreat composition
ReplyDeleteTrue....
ReplyDeleteLet us be kind of people who think twice and reason out before getting into any kind of relationship, just to keep ourselves away from such outcomes of unhealthy and poisonous kinds of love....
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Great art Nzagi.. keep it up
ReplyDeleteKali saana
ReplyDeleteThese campus relationships are taking another pace by the way
ReplyDeleteDetailed message...
ReplyDeleteVery true... It always a nice to make a right decisions.. Just choose a person whom you think you can build a strong relationship with rather than falling in love with people just because of peer pressure and thereafter end up being harassed, stressed out and even being killed. It's time for us to just think
ReplyDeleteLet us be reasoning and avoid 'campus things' as they call it, it leads to no good.....nice article joy😇
ReplyDeleteYes a nice advise let's us not do things out of peer pressure
ReplyDeleteTrue. Youths should understand and be wise when making decisions on relationships
ReplyDeletePeer pressure spoiling everything
ReplyDeleteLet us avoid this by staying away maybe it will help
ReplyDeleteLet us avoid this by staying away maybe it will help
ReplyDeleteOnly Honesty; trust and Understanding each other in a relationship can save us from this.
ReplyDeleteVery good
ReplyDeleteVery informative.
ReplyDeleteThis has touched me personally
ReplyDeleteGreat article......how I wish that campus students read this and get to learn the effects of being in relationships.They should know that in the end......it's you who remains either positively or negatively influenced
ReplyDeleteWooow!! You just spoke in volumes
ReplyDeleteI loved the article with detailed information and the graphics. In general, the whole articles is a great piece of work
ReplyDeleteNice article Joy... Thanks for the advice
ReplyDeleteNo need to add sth but definately u said it all my dear....perfect
ReplyDeleteSure thing.. 👌👌Watchful every step of the way
ReplyDeleteYou've highlighted very good ways of how to avoid being trapped in a toxic relationship but the problem these campus students have is peer pressure and pride of being seen walking around the campus holding hands in the name of love
ReplyDeleteThese people need serious assistance and I think more of these articles will help them a lot
I can't add anything, this has touched me personally
ReplyDeleteLet's stop toxic relationships.. Well highlighted.. On point.. Good work💯💯🔥
ReplyDeleteThank you
ReplyDeleteQuite an inspiring story over there. Keep on inspiring the young adults
ReplyDeleteInformative piece
ReplyDeleteJoy your article just made it #allthewayup...facts💯
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